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Welcome to this new web site devoted exclusively to offering all of the articles I’ve been writing for Psychology Today online over the past several years. As of 2022, there are over two-hundred, and a new one will appear every two weeks. They cover every facet of how relationships form, how they develop over time, and how and why they succeed or flounder.

I have been practicing therapy now for more than four decades, devoted to helping individuals and couples master the tools they need to create the kinds of relationships that give them hope and confidence. I have spent more than 100,000 hours of face-to-face interactions with patients of all ages and backgrounds, and will always be eternally grateful for the trust they have placed in me. And, of course, for what they have taught me in return.

Please feel free to peruse the articles presented here. Comments are always welcome., and, of course, on this website as well.

Keep believing in love.

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Dr. Randi Gunther is a clinical psychologist and marriage counselor practicing in Southern California. In her forty-year career, she has accumulated over 100,000 face-to-face hours with individuals, couples, and families.

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